Me & The Moon

I live with my husbandbabe (best in the universe) our newly minted daughter and our dog herd - fabiola and petri beaverhousen and george stepponopolis

Likes - the smell of books acoustic music cupcakes making connections good vegetarian food travel running the idea of a better me t-shirts with inappropriate pictures and/or sayings wine being thoughtful blogging husbandbabe's cooking coffee eating

Dislikes - anything that causes me anxiety my own shortcomings carrots entitlement wooden street signs and all they stand for people who don't like animals the conservative way the price of Naked smoothies cigarettes meat-eating



email me at crystaljhardin at gmail dot com if you wish
Tue Oct 26
Wed Aug 25

Allons-y!

kabillieu:

thebarbaricyawp:

Hey there, tumblworld.  It’s time.  I hope to post here more than I did on my old blog, so check in from time to time.  

Thanks Kate and Sarah.

Ho-lee shit!  One of my favorite people on either side of Mason-Dixon line and all-around-badass-on-rollerskates is on tumblr.  Welcome!  Welcome!

Yes! 

And, yes, I still exist on tumblr. Too busy to post. Not too busy to keep up with you Kate and all of your delicious looking food products and angsty (unnecessary but totally understood by me seeing as how I have the same affliction) worries. Can’t wait to keep up with another long distance friend through here. yay! 

Fri Jul 9

Okay, so I have been reading a lot lately. Like, a serious amount. But, I am slightly embarrassed by my book list. The Twilight novels, seriously? Embarrassing. (I even went and saw the new movie, by myself). Yikes. 

My friend lent me the Sookie Stackhouse novels. Now I am reading them like a fat kid eats cake (oh, Kanye, how I used to love you). At least they are rated R. And, I have to admit, I find them extremely entertaining. 

So there, my confession for the day. 

Sun Jun 27
Sat Jun 26

flipping channels and landed on the Miss Virginia pageant (I mean, er, scholarship competition?) … interesting.

i did pageants when i was little (and when they were still called pageants, beauty contests, etc). i won some too. i guess they were willing to overlook my buck teeth (it is true, opening coke bottles with your teeth will lead to braces people). 

common themes of this scholarship competition - the many blessings the lord has bestowed upon these young women, american supremacy (patriotism), and scholarship opportunity (it really has nothing to do with how you look, seriously, god bless it (and the united states of america)). 

kabillieu:

ephemeraetcetera:

@kabillieu regarding this post.
Perhaps you thought I was joking when I said there are entire clinical books written on the subject of Highly Sensitive People (HSP, no kidding!). The therapist who wrote this book has made an entire career out of the Highly Sensitive Person, and the book is just the beginning! There’s also The HIghly Sensitive Child and the Highly Sensitive Person’s Workbook and The Highly Sensitive Person’s Diary (because normal diaries just pain us so!). The only thing they don’t have is a Highly Sensitive Person Action Figure, which is really a damn shame because I would definitely buy one and put it on my bookcase right next to my Shakespeare Action Figure.
This book was recommended to me by a therapist that I saw very briefly when I started having meltdowns on the bus, in the car, and before teaching (I saw this person a couple of times before settling on the person I’ve been seeing since). She was about 60, had a crystal necklace, and wore long broomstick skirts and soft moccasin boots and made me effortlessly and inexplicably angry. It must be because I’m so sensitive.
Still, I read the book. It told me to breathe more deeply, stay off the caffeine and sugar, and exercise. Mostly, though, it emphasized that I was like so many poets and artists who are very sensitive, so we must not demonize our sensitivity! Indeed, it makes us able to do other things, like notice the tiny myriad feelings of bumblebees and the deep, daily existential battles of sparrows coming to terms with their sparrow-ness.
It had little to no practical advice like, for instance, navigating the grocery store alone (it terrifies me too; I used to feel like I was going to pass out under the bright lights). Or how to drive for more than 40 minutes without having a complete meltdown. Or what kind of foam padding would be best to use in order to avoid snagging my skin on the furniture in my apartment. Just because I’m sensitive doesn’t mean I’m not practical, by God!
Also, this was a National Bestseller. Chew on that for a moment.
So, let’s just be thankful, I guess, that we aren’t to the point where we organize our peas according to size. Well, usually, anyway.

I have one thing to say about this: I will never give up caffeine.  NEVER.

Huh. My therapist did not recommend this book (but, she wasn’t that great. My psychiatrist on the other hand…she had my number), but I do have Judith Orloff’s Emotional Freedom by my bed. I actually found it somewhat helpful in dealing with my “sensitivities.” More helpful - being thankful that I don’t have a severe hoarding problem like those people on that A&E show.
This book is also a National Bestseller (makes you think).

kabillieu:

ephemeraetcetera:

@kabillieu regarding this post.

Perhaps you thought I was joking when I said there are entire clinical books written on the subject of Highly Sensitive People (HSP, no kidding!). The therapist who wrote this book has made an entire career out of the Highly Sensitive Person, and the book is just the beginning! There’s also The HIghly Sensitive Child and the Highly Sensitive Person’s Workbook and The Highly Sensitive Person’s Diary (because normal diaries just pain us so!). The only thing they don’t have is a Highly Sensitive Person Action Figure, which is really a damn shame because I would definitely buy one and put it on my bookcase right next to my Shakespeare Action Figure.

This book was recommended to me by a therapist that I saw very briefly when I started having meltdowns on the bus, in the car, and before teaching (I saw this person a couple of times before settling on the person I’ve been seeing since). She was about 60, had a crystal necklace, and wore long broomstick skirts and soft moccasin boots and made me effortlessly and inexplicably angry. It must be because I’m so sensitive.

Still, I read the book. It told me to breathe more deeply, stay off the caffeine and sugar, and exercise. Mostly, though, it emphasized that I was like so many poets and artists who are very sensitive, so we must not demonize our sensitivity! Indeed, it makes us able to do other things, like notice the tiny myriad feelings of bumblebees and the deep, daily existential battles of sparrows coming to terms with their sparrow-ness.

It had little to no practical advice like, for instance, navigating the grocery store alone (it terrifies me too; I used to feel like I was going to pass out under the bright lights). Or how to drive for more than 40 minutes without having a complete meltdown. Or what kind of foam padding would be best to use in order to avoid snagging my skin on the furniture in my apartment. Just because I’m sensitive doesn’t mean I’m not practical, by God!

Also, this was a National Bestseller. Chew on that for a moment.

So, let’s just be thankful, I guess, that we aren’t to the point where we organize our peas according to size. Well, usually, anyway.

I have one thing to say about this: I will never give up caffeine.  NEVER.

Huh. My therapist did not recommend this book (but, she wasn’t that great. My psychiatrist on the other hand…she had my number), but I do have Judith Orloff’s Emotional Freedom by my bed. I actually found it somewhat helpful in dealing with my “sensitivities.” More helpful - being thankful that I don’t have a severe hoarding problem like those people on that A&E show.

This book is also a National Bestseller (makes you think).

Thu Jun 24
it’s a circus around here folks.

it’s a circus around here folks.

Fri Jun 18
via media.avclub.com

Dude. We are sitting on our couch watching the Talking Heads: Stop Making Sense.
We netflixed it. 
Wowza. It’s really something.

via media.avclub.com

Dude. We are sitting on our couch watching the Talking Heads: Stop Making Sense.

We netflixed it. 

Wowza. It’s really something.